At Podcamp Boston, I met Courtney Rau. She is the Special Education Department Chair at a Massachussetts school district. We got a chance to sit down and talk about special education, and how the school handles both the education of the child and the management and education of the parents. This was a wonderful interview, that gives you an idea of how schools see parents for a change. Maybe if we can all understand where each other is coming from, we can begin to make these meetings more productive, but I doubt they will ever lose their emotional component, since we will always be talking about our kids.
We spoke about issues you rarely hear about- how schools view advocates; how they sometimes dread talking to us; and how, in the end, it really is all about the child, and everyone does want to see the kids succeed. This should be mandatory listening for every parent before their IEP meetings.
I also met alot of great podcasters at Podcamp, including Mark Blevis, who produces a great podcast with his wife called Just One More Book, looking at children's books you might have missed at your local bookstore. I've also been in contact with Mike from the "Kids Wife Work Life" podcast- another wonderful parenting and family podcast you should check out!
Today's song is the terrific You Don't Need an iPod performed by Uncle Seth. In case anyone wants to know a bit more about podcasting, this is probably the best and most entertaining "commercial" available. Available on the Podsafe Music Network.
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Show # 21- Lessons 5 & 6 in our series of Ten Lessons to Maximize Your Child's Cognitive Development
In this show, we talk about the next 2 lessons in maximizing your child's cognitive development: Help children find what excites them ,even if it doesn't excite you and Encouraging Children to take Sensible Intellectual Risks. We want our kids to be excited about something, or anything at all- but often, they can glom onto things we don;t really enjoy, whether it's a sport you were never good at, or an instrument that sets your nerves on edge. Sometimes being a supportive parent means letting kids explore these things, even if they aren't your cup of tea. Lesson Six encourages you to help your child take risks- try new things, experiment, stretch themselves, but at the same time, not setting them up for failure. Kids who are self- confident are much more likely to take risks in the classroom, like answering questions even when they aren't 100% positive of the answer, and become okay with being both right and wrong. This is part of raising resilient children, as advocated by Dr. Robert Brooks- raising children with the ability to bounce back from bad situations and get right back in there to face the next challenge.
Dr. Paul Spangler has a long list of accomplishments, but in sum, has been working in the field of developmental psychology and developmental disabilities for over thirty years. We discuss how intelligence tests work, what they measure, and how they help give us information about a child. We also discuss that many children have disparities in their abilities, and these "spikey proofiles" can indicate learning problems. Most of all, we discuss how confusing it can be to sort out the difference between developmental delay, developmental disabilities and learning disabilities, and how, in the end, parents need to concentrate on their child's current abilities.
I had alot of fun interview Mark & Andrea Blevis for this podcast. mark & Andrea have 2 daughters, and started the Just One More Book
podcast to share their love of children's books with us all. We talk
about what makes a great children's book, and how this type of reading
to and with your child helps bring reading alive to them, and makes it
part of their lives.
We play Get Out Of My Face, by one of my favorite Podsafe Artists, Uncle Seth- you can find their music on the Podsafe Music Network.
I then talk about Lesson 7 in our Ten Lessons to Maximize Your
Child's Cognitive Development series(see the complete list under the
Ten Lessons link off to the left) Lesson 7 Is Teach Children to Take
Responsibility for themselves- both for their successes and failures.
Teaching children- and showing them by example- how important it is to
be an active participant in our own lives, and to be responsible for
every action, good and bad, will give them confidence and a sense of
control overthemselves and their future. With this sense of control,
there's nothing they can't accomplish.
In part 2, Dr. Conroy, from the Center for Outcome Analysis and I
continue our conversation about whether children with learning
disabilities are being served adequately in a regular cloassroom, or
whether segregation is appropriate at times. We talk about children
who are both gifted and learning disabled, and why changes in education
need to start in the training of our teachers. We both agree that
changing the face of education means finally, teching children how to
learn. By giving them the skills and tools for effective learning and
critical thinking, we'll have kids who are life long learners, not just
people who are good at spitting back rote infromation.
Show # 24 Dr. James Conroy from the Center for Outcome Analysis (Part One)
I had the
pleasure of talking to Dr. James Conroy from the Center for Outcome
Analysis. Dr. Conroy has been involved with measuring the outcomes of
social services programs for many years- one of his missions is to
figure out whether people are better off after particpating in social
services or not, and what people really need out of the programs. He
has two children who have LD, and has struggled, even as an expert
psychologist, through the same IEP process and what Individualized
Education really means in practice. Is segregating kids into special
schools and classrooms the best plan, or is full inclusion better, or
is it somewhere in between? Jim is one of the smartest people I've
spoken with, and I know you'll enjoy his insights and stories.
This week's supplemental show is pretty short. We talk about two of the important changes highlighted by the US Department of Education
in their regional meetings about the new Individuals with Disabilities
Education Act, or IDEA. The newest information on the IDEA can be found
on the Deaprtment's website by clicking here.
We play Black Coffee by Chaz, and it's available on the Podsafe Music Network.
We finish the second half of the show with Lesson 8 in our ten part
series on Maximizing Your Child's Cognitive Abilities- Teaching
children to delay gratification. While recording this show, I had this
same problem with delayed gratification, as my family stood outside the
studio doors urging me to finish the podcast so we could go out to
dinner.... so real life enters this podcast, unscheduled but apropos.
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Show 27: The Academy In Manayunk Part One: Private Schools for Kids with Learning Disabilities
If you have a child with LD, it can often seem like the only choice
you have is the public school system and the services it offers. But
there are a growing number of private schools out there, day and
boarding, that specialize in teaching children with various learning
disabilities. The most famous of these schools in the Lab School,
located in Washington, DC and founded by Sally Smith. (Sally Smith has
a great book you shouldn't miss - No Easy Answers- The Learning Disabled Child at Home and at School). The Lab School,
and its emphasis on research based instruction for children with
language based learning disabilities on a college prepatory course, has
been so successful, it has spun off two additional schools, The Lab
School in Baltimore, MD and now the Academy in Manayunk. (Many private
schools that teach children with similar learning disabilities often
adapt many of the Lab School's practices, even if there is no formal
affiliation between the programs.)
In today's show, I had the great pleasure of interviewing Pat
Roberts, Executive Director, and Nancy Blair, Associate Director of the
Academy In Manayunk.
We've decided to split the interview into 2 parts to make it reasonable
listening length, and part 2 will come later in the week. We talk
about reading, how the brain works, and how important it is to kids to
feel good about themselves as learners. More importantly, the Academy
sees educating college and graduate students in how research-based
practices work in the classroom as an important part of the Academy's
mission, bringing hope that new teachers will know more about how to
individualize education when they have their own classrooms. Pat and
Nancy both have children with learning disabilities, so they bring
their passion as moms to their mission to educate children, parents and
future teachers to every aspect of their jobs.
I know you will love hearing what they have to say, and the depth of
their devotion to their job and making the Academy in Manayunk a huge
success, and more importantly, a vital resource for the Philadelphia
community.
In the second part of
my interview with Nancy Blair of the Academy in Manayunk, we talk about
how important self esteem is to a child''s success in school. So many
very talented people have learning disabilities and have struggled in
school but my learning how to maximize their strengths, they have
really been able to shine. Whether it's designers like Tommy Hilfiger,
or Businessmen like Charles Schwab, or Actors like Henry Winkler (who
now writes books about what it was like to grow up with learning
problems) many kids are both smart and LD, and we need to be able to
let their strengths shine while helping them overcome their weaknesses.
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